Here is a device that could save your relationship: iTouchless is a fully automatic toilet seat that uses sensors to lift the lid cover when you approach. If you wave on more time on the sensor, iTouchless lifts toilet seat for men. The lid and toilet seat close automatically 30 seconds after you walk away.
iTouchless offers 100% touch-free operation and makes your bathroom look more modern. It is great for folks with disabilities too. You can get the elongated or round version for $189.99 each.